Found. My cufflink and tie bar set. Worn once. For my Bar Mitzvah. From Schlesinger’s. The men’s (and later, women’s) apparel store in West New York. Corner of Bergenline Avenue and 57th Street. My suit and other accessories also came from Sid’s iconic palace of superb fashion. I was dressed by Schlesinger’s for most of my young life. And as Yeshiva bocher in nearby Union City, getting my wardrobe there was tradition.